Work On Yourself First!
In our desire to support others, we often find ourselves hastily dispensing advice, attempting to solve their problems, or casting judgments on their choices. In this rush, we may inadvertently neglect our own struggles and challenges. However, genuine growth and deeper understanding stem from a place of self-reflection and personal improvement. By recognising our own imperfections and committing to a journey of self-development, we lay a stronger foundation for helping those around us. It is essential to prioritise our own growth and well-being, as only then can we truly be of service to others. This process of self-improvement not only enhances our own lives but also enriches our capacity to support those around us. When we invest time in understanding our own emotions, motivations, and behaviours, we cultivate empathy and insight—qualities that make us more effective allies and mentors. Self-work takes many forms, from developing emotional intelligence to setting and pursuing p...